If you want to know how to win an ex back listen up. Have you split with your girlfriend and are at loss as to what to do to get them back? Let me tell you something, your girlfriend is a human and this means she will act in certain predetermined ways. When you know how she will act you can make a plan to get her back.

First, you need to understand that human beings basically act in their own self-interest. To know how to win your ex back you must grasp this point. Now of course many humans help others by giving to charity and by working as volunteers etc. But I mean they think of themselves first at a deep subconscious level.

Studies have shown humans generally act in their own in self interest before anyone else’s and this includes close family members. Humans rarely act in a purely altruistic nature. For this reason, if your girlfriend has just broken up with you, tell her it was right, let her go and don’t contact her for four weeks. In the first stages she will be happy with herself because she feels she has won.

Second, humans do not like to be controlled. A normal stable adult will always raise objections to being controlled. So, do not try to pressure your ex. Let them do what they want including seeing other people.

If you complain, she will only want more of the other man as it will become a challenge of resistance for her. Let her see who she wants and do what she wants, when she wants to, and she will feel she is in control of her own decisions.

This won’t tell you how to win back your ex.

Lastly, remember that humans are basically greedy and want things they cannot have. After ignoring your ex for a month she will be dying to know why you haven’t called her. She will want to know why you are not chasing her.

As you have created an illusion of indifference she will start to chase you.

When you are away from your ex for that month you need to work on your own faults. In the end this is how to win an ex back. Spend some time on self-improvement and plan your strategy and you will be in the driving seat when you meet.